Sorry is an admission of insensitivity.
Insensitivity is a lack of awareness of someone else’s emotional state of being.
I am either aware of someone’s emotional state of being or I am insensitive to it.
Sensitivity requires emotional awareness.
Sorry is an admission of my apparent unawareness.
It is also a statement of my becoming aware of my insensitivity.
Unless I become aware of my insensitivity, I cannot apologise for my lack of sensitivity.
Sensitive people say sorry when they are aware of their insensitivity.
An apology is only required when another person lacks sufficient emotional energy to accept my behaviour.
The weaker someone else’s boundaries are, the more sensitive I am required to be.
The stronger someone else’s boundaries are, the more insensitive I am likely to be towards them.
I am never sorry for my actions, only sorry for my insensitivity to other people’s boundaries and their need for emotional energy.
I never need to say sorry to someone with extensively expansive boundaries who has the emotional power to be unconditionally accepting of my actions.
Love is never having to say that you are sorry.