My Personal Boundaries clarify to me, that it is unacceptable for other people to behave in a way that:
- Harms me
- Criticises me
- Condemns me
- Complains to me
- Is cynical to me
- Is sarcastic to me
- Humiliates me
- Embarrasses me
- Needs me
- Diminishes me
- Patronises me
- Is sympathetic to me
- Is apathetic to me
- Humbles me
- Is arrogant to me
- Bullies or intimidates me
- Interrogates me
- Controls me
- Envies me or is jealous of me
- Gives me their problems
- Teases me
- Enforces their boundaries on me
- Stops me following my own path
- Gossips about me, slanders or libels me
- Disempowers me
- Guides me on their path
- Swears at me
- Hates me
- Tolerates or endures me
- Dislikes me
- Dignifies me
- Devalues me
- Assaults me
- Pulls me into their dramas
- Is insensitive to me
- Is irrational with me
- Is unemotional with me
- Deceives me
- Is suspicious of me
- Is inattentive to me
- Is wary of me
- Disappoints me
- Mistrusts me
- Ignores me
- Disapproves of me
- Steals from me
- Is self-righteous to me
- Preaches to me
- Gives me their advice
- Teaches me a lesson
- Lays down their law to me
- Does unto me as others have done unto them
My Personal Boundaries allow my emotional power to be retained. They form a force field of protective energy, that other people are unable to cross, when my specific boundary aligns perfectly with my personal standard of behaviour. When my boundary is out of alignment with my own standard of behaviour, it has no power and is ineffective because it is an expression of my own hypocrisy.
My Personal Standards of Behaviour are what I choose as acceptable to my Self, in my relationship to other people:
- I care about the wellbeing of others
- I encourage others
- I forgive others
- I accept others feedback as their perspective
- I see others in a positive light
- I am light-hearted with others
- I praise others
- I support others emotionally
- I value others
- I expand others’ esteem
- I nurture the development of others
- I have compassion with others
- I have empathy with others
- I treat others as my equal
- I confide in others
- I am friendly to others
- I enquire of others
- I allow others their own beliefs
- I admire others
- I see opportunities for others
- I treat others beneficially
- I clarify my standards to others
- I allow others to follow their own path
- I never think or speak ill of others
- I inspire others
- I guide others on their path
- I honour the presence of others
- I love others unconditionally
- I accept others unconditionally
- I see others as authentic
- I treat others with integrity
- I hold others in high esteem
- I am at peace with others
- I am detached from other people’s dramas
- I am sensitive to others’ emotional state of being
- I rate others positively
- I express positive emotions with others
- I am honest with others
- I am credible to others
- I am alert to others
- I am aware of others
- I have no agenda for others
- I trust others to do what they believe is best for them
- I listen & hear other people
- I approve of other people
- I share expansively with others
- I allow others to be right
- I guide & support others
- I advise others to see their own choices
- I allow others to learn their own lessons
- I allow the Law of Attraction to fulfil its purpose
- I behave to a standard that I find acceptable for all other people to behave in relationship to me
In alignment with the Golden Rule, the Law of Attraction matches me to people with similar personal standards of behaviour. Like energy unto itself is drawn. Other people who resonate with like standards of behaviour, never cross my boundaries and make me cross. They effortlessly & beneficially share their comfort zone with mine, in a mutually safe environment. I never need to enforce my boundaries, I only ever need to clarify them to myself.
My Standards of Behaviour are my personal statement of how I: ‘Love my Neighbour as my Self’. From our highest spiritual perspective, our neighbour is our Self.