The Need to Win is an emotional need caused by a mental fear of losing. Whomever fears losing is sub-consciously driven by their emotional need to win.
An emotional need is the absence of emotional power. Trying to win, in the absence of emotional power, will require enormous will power, tremendous effort and will cause extreme frustration, intolerance & anger.
Anger is the intense reaction to a loss of emotional power. It is the sub-conscious realisation of the failure of will power, which is both intolerable and frustrating.
Only losers need to win. Winners choose to win and when they no longer need to win, they always win.
A Student who is learning is always winning and a Master of the Art of Winning never loses.