My Personal Boundaries clarify to me, that it is unacceptable for other people to behave in a way that:
Harms me
Criticises me
Condemns me
Complains to me
Is cynical to me
Is sarcastic to me
Humiliates me
Embarrasses me
Needs me
Diminishes me
Patronises me
Is sympathetic to me
Is apathetic to me
Humbles me
Is arrogant to me
Bullies or intimidates me
Interrogates me
Controls me
Envies me or is jealous of me
Gives me their problems
Teases me
Enforces their boundaries on me
Stops me following my own path
Gossips about me, slanders or libels me
Disempowers me
Guides me on their path
Swears at me
Hates me
Tolerates or endures me
Dislikes me
Dignifies me
Devalues me
Assaults me
Pulls me into their dramas
Is insensitive to me
Is irrational with me
Is unemotional with me
Deceives me
Is suspicious of me
Is inattentive to me
Is wary of me
Disappoints me
Mistrusts me
Ignores me
Disapproves of me
Steals from me
Is self-righteous to me
Preaches to me
Gives me their advice
Teaches me a lesson
Lays down their law to me
Does unto me as others have done unto them
My Personal Boundaries allow my emotional power to be retained. They form a force field of protective energy, that other people are unable to cross, when my specific boundary aligns perfectly with my personal standard of behaviour. When my boundary is out of alignment with my own standard of behaviour, it has no power and is ineffective because it is an expression of my own hypocrisy.
My Personal Standards of Behaviour are what I choose as acceptable to my Self, in my relationship to other people:
I care about the wellbeing of others
I encourage others
I forgive others
I accept others feedback as their perspective
I see others in a positive light
I am light-hearted with others
I praise others
I support others emotionally
I value others
I expand others’ esteem
I nurture the development of others
I have compassion with others
I have empathy with others
I treat others as my equal
I confide in others
I am friendly to others
I enquire of others
I allow others their own beliefs
I admire others
I see opportunities for others
I treat others beneficially
I clarify my standards to others
I allow others to follow their own path
I never think or speak ill of others
I inspire others
I guide others on their path
I honour the presence of others
I love others unconditionally
I accept others unconditionally
I see others as authentic
I treat others with integrity
I hold others in high esteem
I am at peace with others
I am detached from other people’s dramas
I am sensitive to others’ emotional state of being
I rate others positively
I express positive emotions with others
I am honest with others
I am credible to others
I am alert to others
I am aware of others
I have no agenda for others
I trust others to do what they believe is best for them
I listen & hear other people
I approve of other people
I share expansively with others
I allow others to be right
I guide & support others
I advise others to see their own choices
I allow others to learn their own lessons
I allow the Law of Attraction to fulfil its purpose
I behave to a standard that I find acceptable for all other people to behave in relationship to me. In alignment with the Golden Rule, the Law of Attraction matches me to people with similar personal standards of behaviour. Like energy unto itself is drawn. Other people who resonate with like standards of behaviour, never cross my boundaries and make me cross. They effortlessly & beneficially share their comfort zone with mine, in a mutually safe environment. I never need to enforce my boundaries, I only ever need to clarify them to myself.
My Standards of Behaviour are my personal statement of how I: ‘Love my Neighbour as my Self’. From our highest spiritual perspective, our neighbour is our Self.