Self-confidence is knowing that we have the authority to make our own choices in life.
It is the authority to confide in our Self, and to know our own truth.
It is knowing what we want and making the right choice for our self so that we allow what we want to manifest in our life.
False self-confidence is operating under the authority of some one else’s power.
A false authority is our fate not our destiny. It tells us what and how we should, ought to, must, and have to manange our life.
People appear to lack confidence when they don’t know what to do or how to do what they believe that they should be doing.
The solution for low self confidence is never to show others what to do and how to do it. This is arrogance and is what causes low self confidence in others.
The more we arrogantly try to tell people what to do and how to do it, the more we disconnect them from their true self-confidence, which comes from following their own authority.
When we guide and support another to connect to their own authority and to make their own choices in life, their self-confidence starts to grow.
We can only develop self-confidence once we are no longer dependent on the need to confide in other people to make our decisions for us.