Whereas Equality is a personal choice of beneficial polarity of direction, Equanimity is a personal choice of balanced emotional gender.
In a relative dual reality existence, emotional energy is divided by male & female gender. The purpose of every duality is to allow choice. Every emotional energy has a choice of male or female perception. This allows every personal perception to adopt a positive or a negative perspective of whatever is occurring. A positive perspective feels good or better than a negative polarity, which feels bad or relatively worse. Whereas opposing genders are consistent with everyone’s intuitive feelings, meaning that we share the same experience of either a male or a female gender, we can each polarise our intuitive feelings in either a positive or a negative way; relative to our own belief system.
As personal perspective is relative to personal beliefs, personal experience is relative to the personal perception of the polarity of our energetic gender. I can love (female) or hate (male); like (positive) or dislike (negative), as beneficial (positive) or detrimental (negative), my male or feel energy that determines my masculine or feminine physical characteristics, emotional personality and mental beliefs.
It is my unconditional acceptance of a neutral polarity of discernment with non-judgment, which allows a balanced gender of emotion to be expressed as a quality attributable attainment. A quality attributable attainment is always in emotional equanimity. When my female anima is balanced with my male animus, I attain the attribute of true equanimity.
The serenity & calm associated with equanimity is due to the absence of dramatic intensity, which is always the effect of any emotional gender or mental polarity.
Equanimity allows the presence of my powerful emotional potential to be personally realised.
We each have the equal ability to attain the attributes of equality of thought and equanimity of feeling, which together allow the equability of experience.