Whatever I am dependent on, I need to control.
I cannot depend on something that is out of my control.
I am dependent on whatever I need emotionally.
My emotional needs are controlled by my sub-conscious mind.
My mind automatically controls my emotional needs sub-consciously.
When I depend on other people for what I need emotionally, I will need to control those people to ensure that my needs are met.
I will depend on my ‘control drama’ to successfully compete with other people for the emotional energy that I need.
I will use my control drama of being an intimidator, a poor me, an aloof or an interrogator, to compete with those whom I am dependent on for my emotional energy.
I am not conscious of my control dramas and my emotional dependency until I become aware of my ability to consciously meet them myself.
Once I attain the ability to meet my own emotional needs, I am no longer dependent on others and no longer need to be in control of others.
True Independence is without Dependency & Control.