The Saboteur

The Saboteur:

  • Is the agressive victim.
  • Will sabotage all attempts to form meaningful relationships.
  • Is a victim of a relationship because they sabotage any relationship that is constructive.
  • Is the villain of their own victimhood.
  • Is the creator of their own victimhood.
  • Believes that a pre-emptive strike is the only defence against attack.
  • Is unable to form a constructive relationship because they are unaware of the purpose of relationships.
  • Cannot see who they are being.
  • Sees themself as the victim of who someone else is being.
  • Believes that the only way to stop being a victim of a relationship is to sabotage or destroy the relationship.

The purpose of a relationship is to see and experience who we are being in relationship to another person.

How we relate to others is a reflection of how they relate to us.

One thought on “The Saboteur

  1. pastfirst

    I enjoyed your post. It’s given me a lot to think about.
    I’ve only recently come to realise how much truth their is in your final sentence : “How we relate to others is a reflection of how they relate to us”.

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