Standard Conditions are conditional standards.
Standards are conditional on their being allowable, because they are acceptable, because they have approval. Being allowed and being approved are the conditions on which all standards become acceptable.
Approval is the condition on which I allow anything to be acceptable. I accept a standard and allow it, when it has my approval. When I impose a standard on myself, I expect that standard to be acceptable, to approve it being allowable.
When I impose a standard of behaviour onto other people, it is called a boundary. Boundaries are standard conditions that are deemed to be acceptable behaviour by other people. I deem them acceptable behaviour when I approve and therefore allow them. I disallow other people’s behaviour that I deem unacceptable because I disapprove of it.
It is a condition of my personal boundaries that they align with my personal standards. What I adopt as a personal standard, I allow with my approval as my boundary. When other people’s behaviour is conditional on my approval, I allow my boundaries to be conditional on their approval. I never enforce a boundary without another’s approval. I never approve or disapprove of other people’s standards, only ever my own.
A condition of my standard of behaviour is that it never crosses another person’s boundary. In this way, my behaviour is always acceptable and allowed with their approval.
My standard conditions are:
- My authority is always allowable
- My power is always approved of
- My ability is always acceptable
My authority is allowed when I make a beneficial choice. I allow myself to make beneficial choices, which are positively inspired because they feel right.
My power is approved when I make a beneficial choice, which feels good. I approve of my power when it feels positively empowered.
My actions are acceptable when they are authorised and empowered because I allow them with my approval.
The condition on which I adopt a standard is that it is authorised, empowered & enabled:
- I allow what is authorised and know to be right
- I approve what is empowered and feels good
- I accept what is enabled and see as feasible
Allowing my mental authority, approving my emotional power and accepting my physical ability are my three prime standard conditions, when making personal choices.
- My authority is allowed when I know my choice is right for me
- My power is approved when my choice feels good for me
- My ability is acceptable when I see that it is beneficial for me
Intuitively knowing, feeling & seeing are the conditions on which I choose good, right & beneficial standards for my Self.
Being authorised, empowered & enabled is my standard for all personal behaviour.
Being allowed, as acceptable, with their approval, is the standard of the boundaries that I set with other people; in alignment with the standard that I set for mySelf.
My boundaries are conditional on my standards, not other people’s boundaries, imposed as their standard conditions. The standard of my boundaries is that they are acceptable to other people. Where my boundaries are unacceptable to others I either withdraw the boundary or I withdraw myself.
Personal boundaries are a standard condition of physical life. The standard for my personal boundary is for it to be as extensive and expansive as is beneficially possible.