Pain & Personality are inter-related.
Pain is relative to emotional power.
Emotional power is relative to emotional needs.
Emotional needs determine personality.
The more extrovert my personality, the more I need other people to meet my emotional energy needs and the more I blame other people for the pain in my life.
The more introvert my needs, the more that I blame my Self for my pain, and the more I learn to suppress and hide my pain.
The more positive my personality, the less emotional needs I have and the less pain that I experience.
The more negative my personality and my beliefs, the more emotional energy that I need and the more suffering that I will endure.
My true identity has infinite emotional power, is pain-free, and is overt to all opportunities in my life.