Bliss is an ungrounded intensity of emotion. It has no inherent competence. The majority of people, in our society today, are blissfully unaware of their own level of incompetence. Unless I understand my level of competence, I am blissfully unaware of my level of incompetence. My incompetence is inversely relative to my emotional competence. Being unaware that my competence is a measure of my emotional power, I am blissfully unaware of either my competence or my incompetence.
Being aware of my emotional power is my competence. When I feel good about what I am doing, I am empowered and I am competent. Competence is the emotional feeling of being empowered. I am empowered with competence and I am inspired with confidence. I am competent when I am confident that my actions are worthwhile and beneficial. When what I am doing has true value for me and is worthy of my true Self, I am grounding my competence and competently expressing my Self.
My self worth is my own indication of my level of competence. The capacity to complete a task well is relative to my confidence; without which I am challenged by the task because my competence is a problem.
Incompetence is the affect that is caused by a disempowered action. When an apparent problem or toleration causes a lack of, or need for, emotional power; it causes an incompetent solution.
Nobody ever has confidence in other people’s blissful incompetence. By making someone aware of their unconscious incompetence, I allow them to become conscious of their incompetence. This creates an opportunity for them to become consciously competent in their task, which is a joy.
With the joy of enjoying what I competently achieve, I am grounded in a reality that is working for me. Being ungrounded in my blissful incompetence, is never a joy. It doesn’t work for me and doesn’t fill others with confidence in my ability.