Being Heard is an emotional need.
It is caused by the belief that there is only one reality.
With only one reality, I believe that there is only one way to live in that reality.
When I believe that my way is the only way, I like to tell others the way.
When I need to be needed, I need to tell others the way.
When they do not listen, it drains my emotional energy.
I drain emotional energy when I believe that I am not being heard.
When I need to be heard, I need to herd other people in my direction.
When I need to be needed, I need to be the shepherd to the sheep.
When I need to be heard, I need people to acknowledge that they hear me.
When other people hear my way & acknowledge my way, it justifies my way as being right.
When I need to be right, I need to be needed & I need to be acknowledged, I also need to be heard.