Being Selfish is doing the will of the ego self, which is often detrimental or in opposition to the will of another.
Being unselfish is doing the will of someone else’s ego self, which is often detrimental to our self.
Being selfish is being proud, greedy, envious, vain and arrogant.
Being unselfish is being humble, pleasing, kind, modest and meek.
Selfish & Unselfish are a dual reality of the same energy.
Being selfish is detrimental to another because they can only co-operate by being unselfish.
Being unselfish is detrimental to another because it makes them become selfish.
We overcome the duality when we become Truly Selfish.
Being Truly Selfish is never detrimental to another and always follows the authority and choice of our True Self – our Soul & Inner Coach.