Pro-active means taking action to produce an end result.
Reactive means tolerating a result or effect and making the best of it.
We react to a negative outcome. When we can no longer tolerate the outcome, it becomes intolerable and we instinctively react.
Being pro-active requires us to have a clear intention of what we want and a focused action plan for achieving it.
Responsive means accepting whatever turns up with a positive perspective because we know that it is perfect for us.
Being responsive requires us to take responsibility for what ever turns up in our life, because we know that at some level we created it.
Once we accept that we created a situation or occurence, we are able to respond responsibly.
Being responsive is seeing whatever turns up in our life as a gift.
The best response is always Gratitude & Appreciation.