There are 3 primary fears or 3 sponsoring beliefs that create a false reality.
Fear of Failure: is the apparent belief that we will not be acceptable because our ability is not sufficient for us to succeed.
Fear of failure creates low self-esteem and the emotional need to be accepted and acknowledged and the need to win and to succeed.
Fear of Deprivation: is the apparent belief that we are not free/allowed to have what we want because we do not have the authority to choose.
Fear of deprivation creates low self-confidence and the emotional need to be allowed, to be free, to be safe, and the need to be right ethically, morally and legally.
Fear of Rejection: is the apparent belief that we will not be able to connect to the power that we need because of the disapproval of others.
Fear of rejection creates low self-worth and the emotional need to be included, to be loved, to have approval and to be connected to another who gives us power that we emotionally need.