Bullying is the control drama of the Intimidator.
The Intimidator is a villain who attracts a victim called a Poor Me.
Bullying is an active extrovert form of intimidation that can be a physical or a mental abuse that steals emotional energy from its victim.
Nagging is the control drama of the Interrogator.
The Interrogator is the villain that causes their victim to become aloof.
Nagging is a passive introvert form of interrogation that is equally abusive in the way that it steals emotional energy from its victim.
Poor me is a defence mechanism that counteracts bullying.
Aloof is a defence mechanism that counteracts nagging.
Both control dramas are how we sub-consciously compete with other people for our emotional energy.
Becoming conscious of our own control drama is an opportunity for personal growth.