Being the best we can Be is Being the best we can be in that moment of time.
Being the best we can Be in subsequent moments of time is about being better than we were in previous moments of time. Therefore, being in a state of personal expansive growth is the best we can be, because this is the process of experiencing who we really are and why we are here.
When we are being the best we can be now, we are being better than the best that we were in a previous moment of time. Being better than our previous best is what personal growth is, and is why we are here.
Wanting to be better than another is greed.
Wanting another to be better than us is pleasing.
Believing we are better than another is arrogance.
Believing we are not as good as another is humbleness.
Judging ourself to be better than another is pride.
Judging others to be better than us is modesty.
Being proud of not being proud is humility.
Needing to be better than another is competing.
Being ajudged as not as good as someone else is losing.
Being judged the best is winning.
Being better than the rest is elitist and creates hierarchies.
To sum up:
Following our own path is best for us.
Allowing others to follow their path is best for them and for us.
A Goodness that has no duality of bad is the best we can attain in this world.