Being Valid is having a reason or purpose for Being.
We exist as Human Beings in order to experience Being.
Without a purpose and a sense of value and worth, we will need to be validated or approved by others.
The need to be validated will hinder our decision making because without the validation that we need, we will risk failure and being wrong.
Our Inner Coach, the Soul, has granted our Self unconditional choice.
From the perspective of our Soul, whatever choice that we make, is valid.
Whenever we make a choice, we become valid, because we are here to choose.
Our Inner Coach is not a judgemental Soul. It never disapproves or invalidates our choice.
The only failure is the failure to choose, which is never valid and never approved.
Failure to choose brings us more of the same and inhibits personal growth.
All possibilities exist and all choices are valid.
To be valid, we just have to choose.